Getting Started with Dirty Talk

Dirty talk can be extremely hot if you know what you’re doing. There are plenty of women who love dirty talk. Sometimes it can be difficult figuring out which women like dirty talk and what to say to those who do. Another issue with dirty talk is that what turns you on may not necessarily turn on the woman that you’re with. If you want to avoid any awkward and uncomfortable situations during sex with dirty talk, it’s best to work your up to talking dirty rather than jumping right into it.

Start Out Slowly

“Know where to stop”
The last thing you want to do when it comes to dirty talking is to embarrass yourself. In fact, there is a pretty line between dirty talk and making a complete fool of yourself. When it comes to talking dirty, the first thing you want to do is make sure that she is up for it. Believe it or not, some women really do despise all types of dirty talk. There are other women who enjoy certain types of dirty talk, but if you cross that line between what she likes and what she doesn’t like, she may no longer want anything to do with you.
The easiest way to find out how a woman feels about dirty talk is to simply ask her. You probably don’t want to have it as a topic of conversation during dinner, but you definitely need to find out if she’s OK with it. You’ll have to be very careful with how you ask her. Don’t say anything like, “How would you feel about me calling you a slut during sex?” This is guaranteed to make her uncomfortable if that isn’t something that she’s into. Instead, simply ask her what she considers dirty talk and ask her what types of dirty talk she would be willing to experiment with. Most importantly, don’t push her or nag her to let you try it.

Don’t Follow the Professionals

“Avoid talking like this”
If you’ve watched porn at least once in your life, you’ve probably heard some of the ridiculous things a porn stars say during sex. While everyone is different and some of these things might turn you on, chances are, your woman isn’t going to feel the same way about it. This is why you should avoid saying things that you imagine a porn star would say during sex. Regardless of what anyone tells you, porn is still a form of entertainment, which means the women and men that you see in those films are acting.
Remember to try not to take yourself too serious when you’re trying out dirty talk. When you’re unsure of what to say, you can start off by simply voicing what you’re doing to her and asking her if she likes it. You can even ask her if she likes what you’re saying to her. Always listen for confirmation and check out her body language. If she seems to tense up when you say certain things to her, she probably isn’t enjoying herself. Dial things back a bit so that you don’t end up completely spoiling the mood.

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