Learning to Take Direction in the Bedroom

“Don’t get over-excited”

We are taught that they always need to be in control, so learning to take direction from a woman during sex can be a touchy subject us. What some men don’t understand is that learning to take direction from women during sex is actually a good thing. When you learn to take direction in the bedroom, it allows a woman to be more comfortable and relaxed around you. When a woman is truly relaxed with you, the sex ends up being even better.

Listen to Her Words and Her Body

“Respond better to her reactions”

When you have decided to take direction rather than to give during sex, you have to start with actually listening to the woman that you’re with. When we say listen we don’t mean listen to what she says with her mouth (though you should be doing that, too), we mean that you should listen to her words as well as her body. Many women are shy even when it comes to sex and they may be too bashful to say what they actually want you to do. This means that you are going to have to learn to look and listen for cues that have to do with her body language.

A good example of listening to her body is when they two of you are having sex and she tries to meet your thrusts harder. She may even shift the angle of her hips. When she does this, she is using her body to tell you that she wants more, or that the angle that you’re currently in isn’t completely satisfying her. If you notice this, do not try to change things by doing something entirely different. Instead, you should follow her unspoken direction to show her that you’re main goal is to please her.

Get Communicating

We know it can be a little bit weird to openly ask a woman what she wants during sex, but when you do ask her, you are pretty much guaranteeing that you’ll end up having some mind-blowing sex. Women aren’t used to men asking them what they want. They are used to men taking charge and doing what they want. If a woman is lucky, she may actually get a bit of pleasure from it, but most of the time she fakes it to get it over with. If you don’t want that happening to you, you have to be willing to talk to her.

If you’re unsure of how to communicate with her during sex, you can start off with something as simple as asking her what position she wants to be in. For example, if the two of you are in missionary position, you can lean down and ask her if she wants to turn over or if she wants to get on top. Don’t simply decide what position to put her in without her input.

Learning to take direction in the bedroom is one of the easiest things for men to do. All you have to do is keep in mind that the more you please her, the more she’ll be willing to please you.

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