Letting Her down Easy When It Was a One Night Thing

Sometimes signals can get crossed. You might have thought that you were being perfectly clear that this was a one night only fling and you still end up having to have that awkward conversation the next morning. If you don’t want to get a bad reputation in your social circle you have to be very careful about how you let women down. The worst thing that you can do is give her the “Last night was fun, but…” or “It’s not you, it’s me,” speeches. When you want to let a woman down easy, here are the steps you should take.

Make Yourself Less Attractive in the Morning

"No need to be attractive all the time"

“No need to be attractive all the time”

First of all it doesn’t hurt to make the lady think that she’s dodged a bullet. You don’t have to put on a big show about it, but if you can make it clear that you’re not perfect it will be easier for her to let you go. Just be a little bit selfish in the morning. Make yourself breakfast and don’t ask if she wants any for a long time, hog the bathroom, that kind of thing. If she’s already a bit annoyed she won’t be nearly so sorry to know that she’s not going to be doing this again. It’s being cruel to be kind.

The trick with this is not to go too far. You don’t want her to stay smitten by you, but you don’t want to make this into the morning after from hell either. Just stay a little bit thoughtless and cool towards her and she’ll get the message that she’s not really wanted before you even have to open your mouth.

Be Direct When You Have to Be

Don’t beat around the bush when it comes down to telling her that you don’t want to see her again. Tell her that it’s not going to happen again. You don’t have to put any opinions on it. Don’t say that you don’t want to see her again, just say that it’s not going to happen again. Try to avoid phrases that would make her think that she’s not good enough or that it’s in any way dependent on her and what she likes, thinks, feels, etc. Just tell her that it’s not going to happen but make it sound like a fact of life. The sky is blue, water is wet, and sleeping together was a one-time only deal. It’s just the way things are.

Don’t Cut All Contact Right Away

If she’s not a stranger then the worst thing you can do is completely sever contact. You have to keep up whatever interaction you had before the hookup for at least a few weeks after the hookup. Then you can slowly start to fade out of her life if you don’t want to talk to her again. You don’t want her to feel used. That’s when she’d set out to ruin your reputation. Pretend like nothing’s changed and by the time you do cut off contact it’s been too long for her to complain about it.

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