Why She Keeps Turning You down for Sex

Hooking up with a woman for the first time can often feel like an incredible achievement. All of the effort you put into trying to pick her up to begin with finally paid off and you get to go to bed with an amazing woman. However, making sure that she wants to keep sleeping with you is not quite as easy. Having a hookup keep turning you down for sex a second or third time is incredibly frustrating. After all, you already made it this far only to be turned down. Knowing why she might be turning you down for sex all the time will help you know how to keep women coming back.

You Skimp out on Foreplay

“Don’t hold back during foreplay”

Foreplay can be tedious and it might not be in your usual style to focus on foreplay. However, skipping out on foreplay or not having enough foreplay can be a major reason why women don’t want to hook up with you. Women oftentimes need a bit of extra foreplay to get worked up, and if you have been skipping out on this, it’s certainly not going to get you any points. Try to focus more on the foreplay in order to make sure she feels good. Skipping this might mean that you’re just not going to get another chance at hooking up, and she may not want to continue the relationship at all. It’s definitely an important factor.

You’re Too Rough or Too Gentle

“Your sexual behavior matters”

Some women are very particular about the sex that they have. If you’re being too gentle or too rough with her, she’s not going to want to keep going to bed with you. You might need to ask her straight up whether or not she’s satisfied with the sex that you’ve been having, although she may not always answer you directly. If you do manage to convince her to have sex with you again, try experimenting with different techniques and see how she responds to different intensities. She may just want something new from you, especially if you tend to fall into a pattern with sex. Try to convince her that you’ll focus more on what she wants next time you have sex.

The Sex Is Boring

One major reason a woman might turn you down for sex is if she’s bored by it. No guy wants to find out that they’ve been boring a woman in bed, but sometimes it just happens. You might not even realize it, but it can certainly be a contributing factor to the rejection. Fortunately this is usually easy to fix. Convince her that you want to try new positions or include sex toys. Get kinky. Let her do what she wants in bed and let her take control if she wants to. Making sure that she’s not bored in bed is one of the most important ways to keep her coming back. Whatever she wants, you should try to give it to her, even if it’s not exactly your favorite thing to do in bed.

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